When it comes to Daddy Dom/little girl relationships, it takes two very unique and specific types of people to make the relationship work. It is not enough simply to be a dominant or a submissive, you need to be more than that to fulfill the roles of either a Daddy Dom or a little.
Im a Dominant:
Daddy Doms are dominant men, there is no mistaking that. Some ignorant people may mistake me for a weaker or lesser Dominant because of my nurturing and caring nature. THIS IS NOT TRUE! I am just as much a Dominant as the man who shows his submissive or slave no mercy. How much of a Dominant you are is not measured in your ability to hurt, to ‘force’ your submissive or your mercilessness. It is also not measured in your selfishness, how much you whip your sub or how big you talk. How dominant you are is measured in your ability to effortlessly control your sub and command respect.
Being dominant by using brute physical force or mental and emotional abuse is not being dominant at all, it is being a BULLY and bullies can never measure up to the power of a True Dominant.
Im Nurturing, Kind, Caring…And Affectionate
An essential prerequisite as a Daddy Doms is a natural nurturing instinct, the desire to care for my little, bring her on in whatever she desires and gently mold her into the best little you believe she can be. As a Daddy Dom I want to help my littles develop and grow in whatever area they need help with, whether it be furthering her career, learning new skills or becoming a better submissive.
I might be good, kind and gentle but that’s not to say that im not strict. Aa a Daddy Dom I rule over my submissive littles with an iron fist in a velvet glove, so to speak. I am as strict as any other type of Dominant but the way they go about enforcing their rules is often kinder and gentler. However, that’s not to say that a Daddy Dom is a pushover, beware the little that tries to manipulate or disobeys her Dominant because punishment will follow.
I care deeply for my little, she is precious to me and I will do all he can for her. I care about my submissive’s well being, happiness and not only my own pleasure – unlike other Dominants who can be more focused on their own personal pleasure than what is in their sub’s best interest.
Im not afraid that showing affection for my little will somehow emasculate me and I understands that she needs to be loved and shown affection. Whether it’s hugs and cuddles in bed over cartoons on a weekend,reading a book togheter, giving her a bath, grooming her hair, telling her she did well or passionate embraces and hot kisses, littles need affection and lots of it and I understands this and gives it to her..
I am Understanding
I need to be understanding. Littles are often very complex and he needs to understand her through and through, her moods, desires, how she copes with the world and when/why she doesn’t. I need to understand why she fails when she does and how to help her, encourage her and mould her into his perfect little. Without a proper understanding of her, i will never be a good Daddy Dom.
Just because im are caring, gentle and affectionate does not mean that I cannot be a sadist who enjoys inflicting pain on my little. Spanking and whipping are a favourites for me . The bounding between me and my little is allso based on hard spanking and whipping.
Im caring and gives alot of love to my little, but never confuse that with that im weak, soft and not willing to rough you up hard !
I`ll Dicipline and punich my little for a reason, i`ll do with a purpose.
Beeing loving and sadistic is who i am, its the contrast that many Doms not fully understand, and this is accutaly the key in beeing a good DaddyDom.