In this fantastic world of bdsm we all learn something and With this knowledge we all in Our own way questions some truths and believes.
What some have expirienced and others have read about in different blogs is the Daddy/little dynamic and it is one of the strongest relationships in the BDMS world.
The love is pure, the responsibility is great, the arena for devolpment is huge and the clarity of the relationship is so obvious and pure.
I dare to say that this type of relationship is magic.
But why stop where the Magic starts….
The only thing this magical relationship is missing is so obvious , its missing a Mom.
Also add a Mom to this relationship then the hole meaning of this dynamic gets a totally differnt point of view and the real Magic is created.
The roles are even clearer, the love is beeing added by a hole other importent person, the responsibility is greater, devoloping is set to another Level and the clarity in this relationship is even more natural, even more obvious and even at the peek of purity.
Two is a couple and Three is a crowd, this is often very true!
But put this thought in a perspectiv of Mom-Dad and little then Three will be a strenght to the relationship for all.
This is as I see it another way of thinking in a well known dynamic ( DD/lg) This is putting the final missing bit in the puzzel and not only a missing bit in the puzzel, maybe the one significant piece of it all, a Mom!
The dynamic in it self will as I see it grow even stronger, the relationship will be even stronger, the love will double and the litle will be extremly loved by a Mom and a Dad.
The elements around the D/M/l lifestyle are pretty similar to that of your typical one which includes guidance, protection, training, and devotion. The power exchange between the Daddy/Mommy and little is often lower versus a TPE (total power exchange). There are also different expectations for a little than a slave, for example. Protocols and the expectations may be different or much more relaxed. The dynamic instead focuses on care and guidance for the little, where rules enforced ensure that. While the Dad and Mom in many ways are rolemodles for their little, we now also plays a more intimate and nurturing parental role.
So what are my toughts more specific on this type of relationship ?
A Daddy and Mommy is a type of Dominant partner where Daddy and Mommy focus more on guidance and nurturing our little, helping her grow as a person and explore theirselves. Being a Daddy and Mommy is more than sex and having the ability to control. Being a Daddy and Mommy is more than just giving spankings. Daddy and Mommy is more than just a name or a title. It’s a mindset, it’s our personality, it’s a way of being. And most importantly it’s a great amount of responsibility. To a Daddy and Mommy, our little is ours world and the feeling is mutual. We see Our little through the eyes of a parent.. Our little is ours most prized possession and a work of art, not in terms of physical appearance, but showing his skill and care as Daddy and Mommy. We take on the responsibilities of our little’s life, helping relieve some of the stress and guiding them through every day obstacles.
A Daddy and Mommy sees potential in our little and we does our best to bring it out. Rules are set in place to make sure our little is taking care of herselves. . These rules can also apply to internal factors such as encouraging our little to speak up if they’re feeling down, self conscious, or feel that their her needs are not being met in the relationship. Assignments for Our little may also be given to help teach the little responsibility.
This is the perfection of age play, it is the most Natural thing in the world – Having a Mom and a Dad.
And I say- this – this is the highest Level of age play and the most realistic and best way to have a little relationship !